Why I hate to see the newspaper

My Parents used to tell me “Just work hard for these early years (school years) and then you would never have to work hard for your entire life “. But, Truly speaking I was a bit of exception and didn’t really listened to them but after the 12^th I really didn’t spare a single day and worked really hard, which do gave me satisfaction but then I couldn’t find a single day when I don’t have to work to earn my bread. So, it made me think ‘why my parents told me that statement or they just told me because my grandparents told them and they are still think that one day it would come true and thought to try on me’.

So, coming back to the topic “Why I hate to see the newspaper” So the reason is somehow similar that it makes me realize on daily basis of how wrong my parents were and how the god has planned the life for people like us.

A typical day on 2nd October

A typical day on 2^nd October

I believe what I would be writing would relate to any college going sophomore, we wait eagerly for 2^nd October, (hey don’t start thinking that to celebrate Mahatma Gandhi Sacrifices or His birth anniversary) but, so we can avail an extra holiday.

I personally believe that we may had forgot what 2^nd October holds for us or what significance this day in our freedom movement ,if our politicians have not brouhaha the newspapers showing their purloin dedication to Ghandiji principles.

It was a normal morning to me, getting up and looking in newspaper for some Crispy headlines when I found out that today is a also a birthday of an another eminent personality of our country shri ‘Lal Bahadar Shastri’ but he was not given his due recognition but one advertisement in the complete newspaper, this in reality shows that we are not concerned with the efforts of individual but everyone is just trying to maximize his popularity with a brand which is more known and have a great impact on public.

I went to have my breakfast and as today was the holiday, I went to my new M.B.A. chum’s room, it’s 9.00 A.M. but he is still sleeping but in the meantime I was leaving three other friends join me and I blithely told them that ‘today is a great day as it’s mahatma Gandhi birthday’ and looking at their expression I realized that somehow I have entered enemies territory.

I do sometimes think whether Pakistanis also hate ‘Jinnah ‘ so much, if yes then we should exchange our leaders because looking at recent events ,jaswant Sinha book , my friends views’ and reading a editorial in a national newspaper I am somehow convinced that Jinnah would found some more true followers than Ghandiji.

My all friends were so pugnacious that without me giving some counter view, they told me some 100 negative points about Ghandiji, few of which are worth mentioning are 1. He was the cause of death of a great leader ’Bhagat Singh’

2. We got independence not due to Mahatma Gandhi but due to the WWII. 3. This one is most ingenious i.e. Nathuram Godsy wrote some 300 page memoirs which were never published? Why? And the answer they gave because it was depicting true Mahatma...

I do have to say people have become aficionado when it comes to belittle Ghandiji .I have learned over a period of time that whenever u get trapped in such a ludicrous argument, you should keep yourself silent.

Somehow, the argument settled down, now comes the time to turn to today’s programmed (it has already been 10.30 a.m. and they all don’t want to waste this extra holiday while being in hostel). So one said he would spend whole day while sleeping, one suggested to go for a new movie’ Wake up Sidd’ when another friend join him that after that they can go to booze... (I reminded that it’s dry day.) they gave me an answer that’s why they are drinking today. It’s more fun to drink on dry day… One friend made plans to visit his relatives place ,so everyone is really deeply concerned about this auspicious day and have plans ready for it except me(My plans are always the same (quite boring type)) but I too would be having some extra sleeping hours.

In the evening, I came to know that one of my room-mate who has absconded from the morning has gone to a mall and the mall was jam-packed.

My day ended like an ordinary day and I really don’t think that someone may have praised Ghandiji before sleeping for its efforts (not I including).

3^rd Oct, (just one more thought I want to share with you, I know that it must have became a tome to read this article) I read an view of Shashi Tharoor i.e. , ‘Ghandi Jayanti should not be a holiday’ he favored his point by saying that we should give an extra day of work on 2^nd so as to give true homage to Ghandiji ‘ I personally believe that it may be a better idea to give a homage to a leader who has always proclaimed his work as his god.

I know that many of you may not engross my idea. But diversification leads to beautification…

a beutiful place...

i have pasted some beutiful places here...found on google images...aren't they beutiful and won't you like to spend the rest of your life there..... yes/no

you would say what a stupid ques ....anyone would answer yes...that's right....

plz think before you answer...? and choose one of the above photo...and the reason for your choice..
then scroll down...








ok so you have chosen your answer....now let me ask you one question more are u going alone or with someone else.... ok if you have already determined then it's good otherwise i again gave u a moment to decide it....
think and then scroll down......







till this spot you must have determined that the place alone was not enough to be said the most beutiful spot of the universe.....if there is no one to enjoy with....

But do a partner can make it really the place of our dreams.....or the most beutiful spot of the universe....to some time yes......but what after that.....

Tourist's from one part of world travel to other parts just for a beutiful spot.....they take snap ,sovournier and try to capture that beuty....but finally ending tired and tanned.....


But There's one place which is ever beutiful and ever rejoining and it doesn't need a partner..and it always stays with you...and it's upto you how much beutiful you want it to be.....

It's you .....ur inner soul.....a person who regularly feeds his soul with pure thoughts and good ideas.....find his soul as the most beutiful place....

And the biggest benefit of this is that it shows on your face,your activities.....and others also get affected by you......this is contagious but only to those who want it.......

you can come back to it anytime..and it won't fail you.......it's always yours....and always waiting for your return.......

Art of living and the real life

Art of living ,it's a course conducted by Sri Ravi Shankar ,it's a great course as its basically deal with the youth and it's foundation stone is music..and the art of living ....
these days (or i should say the election time) they have also started educating people the importance of voting..and therefore has started a "jaago bharat" abhiyaan where they preach some principles of "Art of Living" , they sing bhajans and most importantly they request people to stand up and vote..
luckily it happened on 9th in Saharanpur(My home town) and i was available there..and my parents also agreed to go there...
Usually or on normal circumstances i don't go there...but i know that Art of Living is a great foundation with a good crowd (beutiful & intelligent girls) so i went there...
they sung very melodious songs ...and the crowd doesn't dissapoint (open hairs....hot weather ) awesome arrangement i should say...
they also gave one very important mantra of "Art of Living" which states that it's upto us how much importance we give to the sorrows of our's we have got both the power to keep it and to delete it..
If we keep it then we would be kept on suffering.. and if we delete it it's just went away......great na..!

then they told some facts abt india i.e. there have been 22 attacks on india in the last year..which is highest for any country.., Just 5 taliban's entering the india rocked the complete nation.. what would happen if complete pakistan attacks india
In Andra Pradesh just in 5 years the no of christians have incresed from 9% to 19%
There is 5400 crores of money kept in Swiss banks and no one is willing to get them back...

yup these are true facts and truly we all should start thinking about this as it's our nation and we are not awake then how would are politicians
In majority of india the voting is 45-50% ,and if a contestent gets 15 % he/she becomes a MP,it means that 85% people have not chosen him..but he is ruling the nation..
we really have to think abt it....?

i was very much impressed with the teaching both of "Art of living" and thinking thing as they have not asked to pray any god /or saint or not asked to do fast or asked for some donations..
and they have offered a simple way to take the path of Art of living...

But in the morning i have to return to Agra , and luckily my train which usually is scarcely occupied was completely occupied to such a extend that there was not enough space to stand..
But one man was sitting one a single seat and i asked him to move ..but he didn't initially i asked him politely in gentleman manner...to give me the seat...but he didn't
i just stand there...without speaking a word...while internally i was just thinking abt the incident(now whether i have put much importance to it..by wishing to have a seat)
And i was just looking for a vent for the escape of my anger..when he said that i should try in front compartment..and i just started shouting on him..and in 5 minutes he offered me a seat..
Can't he offer me seat when i asking him politelly has my size changed (that it may have reduced)..i don;t know....
But i know one thing in real life pain is a part of it..and without it life is not complete..b'coz when pain comes then only we go to find out it's solution.....